Oh no… can we really handle another one?

My second daughter came to us sooner than expected. My son had not even reached his second birthday… and surprise! …we were pregnant again. Maybe the hormones were also to blame, but while the “good news” made my husband ecstatic it made me cry and panic. Apparently, my reaction is not unusual. If you’re feeling overwhelmed about that new baby on the way, I offer some comforting words.

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Siblings determine development more than we realize.

A United Press International (UPI) report on a new study that highlights how influential siblings are in a shaping a child’s growth into a well-adjusted adult. US researchers say, parental influence on a child’s development has always been vital. But apparently, brothers or sisters can make or break us as well.

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How far should we go in helping our kids settle their conflicts?

She’s ruining my life! My son melodramatically complains about his younger sister. She had accidentally knocked over the LEGO space station he was working on. I don’t like you! Not sharing! are some lines I hear from the girl when she’s not getting something she wants from her big brother.

Most of the time, the siblings enjoy each other’s company. A few times, they’ve shown concern for each other enough to make my heart melt. But even in the best of sibling relationships, rivalry inevitably comes into play.

Experts say, it is crucial to handle this properly because hostile siblings can be just as damaging as bad parents. Yikes! So how do I promote good sibling dynamics between my big boy and my little girl? Read more to see what advice I had gathered.

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I’m going to be a super big brother!

Mom and dad are usually caught up with preparations for the new baby. Parents may even be overwhelmed. But don’t forget, future big brother or big sister is going to face major changes too. There are a few things we can do to help them along this major transition.

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